A father installed a CCTV camera in the living room to catch a thief. Instead, he caught his 17-year-old son moving the camera to face the bathroom door. The father did not hit the son. He forced the son to sit and watch religious lectures about Mahram (unmarriageable kin) for 48 hours straight. The son later confessed he had been addicted to pornography for three years.
"In the absence of a healthy romantic outlet, and due to the prohibitive cost of sex work or dating, the young man's libido fixates on the easiest target," she explains. "But 'easiest' is complex. He doesn't want a stranger. He wants the woman who cares for him. 'Ngintip Ibu Lagi' allows him to violate her without losing her care. It is the ultimate control fantasy."
