However, the existence of this internal opposition highlights a painful truth: transphobia is not exclusive to straight cisgender people. A gay man can be transphobic. A lesbian can refuse to date a trans woman. The "chosen family" of queer culture has not always been a safe haven for trans siblings. For every Stonewall hero, there is a story of a trans person being told to sit at the back of the gay pride parade.

No honest article about this relationship can ignore the shadow of anti-trans sentiment within the cisgender (non-trans) queer community.